what a lovely suprise!!

words could not express how thankful and how happy I am today...

one of my bff ,wanny suprised me today with 2 gifts...

mmg touched.. sebabnya these gifts are not for any special occassions...sajer sajer katanya...I super love both of it...thanx babe!


kalau dulu tema hadiah yang diterima adalah biru....tema hadiah kali ini adalah plum..hehehe..

~ i could imagine dah nak buat baju apa :)~

~ my first bottle of this exact perfume was also given by wanny when she came to London for a visit, sempena saya menjadi hostess :P, kali ni siap dapat satu set lagi~


terima kasih~danke schun~arigato~ thank you~



ok..saya dah bersiap sedia nak amik cuti..sila confirmkan date!



xoxohugsxoxo

oh sakitnya!

so i was diagnosed with tonsillitis today...[saja nak buat bunyi cam serius]

cerita nya begini.....my brother came and pick me up to have lunch at the famous gulai kawah restaurant in pantai dalam.. abangku mmglah sangat excited nak bawaku cuba makan disitu dan arini demi kabel yang bakal menyelamatkan blackberrynya itu tercapai juga hasratnya nak membawa ku ke situ...

we had a lovely lunch...lauk pauk nya mmg yummy..kalah wisma pantai nya lauk pauk..

tiba-tiba terasa tekak ku sangat perit and at that time the only thing that came to my mind was dah tercekik tulang ikan...tapi yang peliknya i had beef, chicken,lala and kerabu for lunch...tetapi sebab perit sgt saya yakin itu adalah tulang ikan..siap wat theory mungkin ada tulang dalam kuah apa-apa sesat...or..ada tulang dalam kerabu...

masa nak byr tu abang capai kuih gula melaka supaya i gigit half of it and telan..supaya tulangnya turun..akan tetapi misi itu tak berjaya sebab kuih tu lekat kat lelangit daaaaaaaaaa.......pffttt..balik jer opis ada new theory baru dengan bantuan kak rin..mungkin dari paku pakis dalam kerabu tu...tekak dah makin perit and i was already anxious..al maklum first time lekat tulang..minum air suam panas sebotol still tak lega.. after persistant nagging by wanny through bbm i decided to go to the doc.. mula tu takut ...sebabnya tak leh bygkan dr jolok tekak...

masuk jer bilik doctor.. dia suruh baring..dan mulalah sesi menyuluh tekak ku and menjolok..dalam masa less than a minute i dah mengelupur and mata dah berair and dah nak muntah..lepas i dah bgn the doctor was literally laughing at me while saying.."apalah u ni..mana ada tulang...tonsil u bengkak adalah:P"

mula la sesi pep talk which includes arahan dibawah...

1~~~~ dilarang minum ais

2~~~ dilarang makan buah buahan [ini mmg bengang sbb skrg ni musim buah kot..akan ku rindu maggis, durian, cempedak, rambutan dan sbgnya..nasib baik zz dah bwkkan maggis from perak last week]

3~~~dilarang makan pedas-pedas [ i can live with this :P]

4~~~ dilarang makan oily food sgt

after makan ubat tu alhamdullillah lega skit tekak ku ini :)but arahan diatas kene turuti if i tamau dioperate in the future..tapi sampai bila? i need my intake of coke! and my yummy fruits..sbb nnt kene tunggu lama:9

oh so random thoughts.....

~~~ i had super fun last sunday...good food...good company..good exercise! will blog bout it later kalau sempat!

~~~ trench coat are not meant for indoors yer ladies...aku tak phm laaa!! mmg la sejuk atmosfera opis nie but to wear a trench coat as a top aka shirt tu is a bit melampau...

~~~Ramadhan will be here soon and i'm so looking forward to it!

~~~ I am lack of dose! i need the recharge ! tomorrow i hope....

~~~ oh yaaa.. my current blog template is so annoying.. sudah ku cuba edit and tukar but makin menjadi2 buruknya..pffttt

What about it??

Sometimes I don't know whether I should be annoyed or I should be proud to hear all these remarks from men..or even worse women...

Sesi berangin started this morning.. i went to fill up my fuel..at a petrol pump near my place... after filling up i decided to check my battery and water..as i was refilling the battery water a guy came and asked.. "awak mmg slalu check sendiri ker? Reti ke buat tu? Lain kali suruhlah abang ke bapak ke buatkan.." terus aku menjawab dalam hati

1. It has been my weekly activity to check everything required!
   





2. Of coz I know the basics requirements for the car. Takkan laaa reti bawak kereta tapi lansung tak dah basic knowledge about it!
   





3. Eh hello! Ingat ni zaman dulu-dulu ker ? Semua nak harap kaum adam je buat. We are can manage with the basic things. Lain la hal-hal major kan.
   

~wanita zaman dulu-dulu pun reti perbetulkan engine tau ~

Thinking about it made me realized, banyak juga benda yang I am independent bab –bab basic kereta ni...kui kui kui... Cuma bila tang engine jer gelabah mode skit sit...

contoh yang lain adalah..

saya penah change my own flat tyres kat tepi highway upm tu. Apparently ramai gak terkejut bila tau I did it within half and hour [ni seriously..factor utama ..sbb takut dok tepi jalan sorang-sorang sebenarnya]. Anyways, logically kalau tayar kita pancit and kita sorang-sorang mesti lah we will go out and terus do the appropriate steps.lain lah ada orang lain dalam kereta tu kan? Tak ke buang masa bila nak call orang pastu ckp "tayar I pancit la" pastu orang tu nak tukar baju and nak dtg ke lokasi.. bayangkan masa yang dibuang.. Additionally dalam masa menunggu tu macam-macam leh berlaku.. kene langgar ke.. kene rompak ker...ni yang mula nak keluar bebel mode nie!

~Tukar jer sendiri senang~

Just nak say.. we girls are able to these things ok! Kalau bg mereka yang tak tau tu if you are driving ur own car pandai-pandai laa amik tahu..girl power!

The analyse paralyse mode again..

These past few weeks have been a stressful for me. The fact that i cried while driving several times now has made me think. What is wrong with me?

I am not this person who can't handle stress. I know it's not appropriate to complain as other people go through even tougher challenges in their life. What I'm going through is only peanuts.

At that time when I just couldn't handle it, a friend told me to go straight home.. Take a cold shower and do the things that makes me happy and I loved..it definitely worked to calm myself.

But then I need to find solutions.. I can't be breaking down like this... super not healthy.. Even worse no one knows about it <-now orang dah tau la...but then now I'm managing.. i think.. Baby steps...

 

When I Look At You

Everybody needs inspiration
Everybody needs a song
A beautiful melody when the night's so long
'Cause there is no guarantee that this life is easy

Yeah, when my world is falling apart
When there's no light to break up the dark
That's when I, I, I look at you

When the waves are flooding the shore
And I can't find my way home anymore
That's when I, I, I look at you

When I look at you, I see forgiveness, I see the truth
You love me for who I am like the stars hold the moon
Right there where they belong
And I know I'm not alone

Yeah, when my world is falling apart
When there's no light to break up the dark
That's when I, I, I look at you

When the waves are flooding the shore
And I can't find my way home anymore
That's when I, I, I look at you

You appear just like a dream to me
Just like kaleidoscope colors that prove to me
All I need, every breath that I breathe
Don't ya know, you're beautiful

Yeah, yeah

When the waves are flooding the shore
And I can't find my way home anymore
That's when I, I, I look at you
I look at you

Yeah, yeah, oh, oh
You appear just like a dream to me

just to share...

pada suatu hari disekolah..sorang murid btnya pada gurunya...
ktika itu, guru sdang mngajar topik kasih sayang....

pelajar : ckg, mcm mana kita nak pilih ssorg yang tbaik untuk mnjadi seorang yang kita paling sayang?mcm mana nak menjaga ksih itu supaya bkekalan?
ckg : ok, kmu ikut apa yg saya sruh...kmu prgi ke pdang dan bjalan di atas rumput.pilihlah rumput yang PALING cantik tanpa mnoleh ke belakang lagi wlpun sekali. petik rumput yang PALING cantik dan bwa ke kelas.

*apabila pelajar tersebut pulang ke kelas, tiada sehelai rumputpun di tgnnya..*

ckg:knapa tiada rumput yang kamu pilih?
pelajar : td masa sy bjalan, mmg ada byk rumput yang cantik..tp ckg kata petik yang PALING cantik...
maka sy trus bjlan xpa mnoleh ke belakang lagi, tp sampai d penghujung pdang, sy tak jumpa pun yang
PALING cantik, mungkin ada d'antara rumput dbelakang sy td yg paling cantik, tp ckg kta x bole mnoleh ke
belakang lagi, jd xdalah rumput yang sy petik...
ckg: ya, itulah jwapannya..

MKNANYA..APABILA KITA TELAH BJUMPA DENGAN ORG YANG KITA SYG..JGNLAH KITA CARI YANG LEBIH BAIK DARI ITU, KITA PTT HARGAI ORG YANG BRADA DI DEPAN KITA.DAN INGAT, ORG YANG PALING KITA SYG, ORG ITULAH YANG PALING CANTIK DAN BAIK....

she is now 2 years 5 months...

this little princess is really growing fast :)
more cheeky....
more adorable...

and her vocabulary and sentence structures are really good for someone her age...heheh..im so proud of you darling!!

xoxo hugs and kisses from ucu xoxo

ps: its so hard to get her to smile at the camera nowdays

Happy Birthday Ms Rifqah Nordin!

wishing you all the happiness and may everything that you wished for at 12 am last night came true!!!

ps: dah tido ke belum time tu?

cute!

i'm lovin zaidah's post based on this:P adorable

As always...quotes to uplift my motivation

"The significant problem that we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at, when we created them." ~Albert Einstein

"No matter how good you get, you can always get better and that's the exciting part" ~ Tiger Woods

"Kind words do not cost much. Yet the accomplish much" ~ Blaise Pascal

"For every action, there is equal reaction from the opposite direction" ~ Isaac Newton

"Those who carry out tasks without having prior knowledge and purpose, things that the damage are much greater than they repair" ~Umar Abdul Aziz

"If everyone is thinking alike, then no one is thinking" ~ Benjamin Franklin

"To repeat what others have said requires education. To challenge it requires brain" ~ Mary Pettibone Poole

"Leave the beaten track occasionally and dive into the woods. You will be certain to find something you have never seen before" ~Alexander Graham Bell

 

FINDING AND KEEPING A LIFE PARTNER by Dov Heller, M.A.

When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%, it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding Mr./Miss. Right! If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting married, they'll say: 'We're in love'; I believe this is the ..1 mistake people make when they date. Choosing a life partner should never be based on love. Though this may sound 'not politically correct', there's a profound truth here. Love is not the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the result of a good marriage. When the other ingredients are right, then the love will come. Let me say it again: 'You can't build a lifetime relationship on love alone'; You need a lot more!!! Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you're serious about finding and keeping a life partner. QUESTION ..1: Do we share a common life purpose? Why is this so important? Let me put it this way: If you're married for 20 or 30 years, that's a long time to live with someone. What do you plan to do with each other all that time? Travel, eat and jog together? You need to share something deeper and more meaningful. You need a common life purpose. Two things can happen in a marriage: (1) You can grow together, or (2)you can grow apart. 50% of the people out there are growing apart. To make a marriage work, you need to know what you want out of life! Bottom line; marry someone who wants the same thing. QUESTION ..2: Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person? This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship. Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person. The basis of having good communication is trust â€' i.e. trust that I won't get 'punished'; or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings. A colleague of mine defines an abusive person as someone with whom you feel afraid to express your thoughts and feelings. Be honest with yourself on this one. Make sure you feel emotionally safe with the person you plan to marry. QUESTION ..3: Is he/she a mensch? A mensch is someone who is a refined and sensitive person. How can you test? Here are some suggestions. Do they work on personal growth on a regular basis? Are they serious about improving themselves? A teacher of mine defines a good person as 'someone who is always striving to be good and do the right ';. So ask about your significant other: What do they do with their time? Is this person materialistic? Usually a materialistic person is not someone whose top priority is character refinement. There are essentially two types of people in the world: (1) People who are dedicated to personal growth and (2) people who are dedicated to seeking comfort. Someone whose goal in life is to be comfortable will put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing. You need to know that before walking down the aisle. QUESTION ..4: How does he/she treat other people? The one most important thing that makes any relationship work is the ability to give. By giving, we mean the ability to give another person pleasure. Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they wrapped up in themselves and self' absorbed? To measure this, think about the following: How do they treat people whom they do not have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys, taxi drivers, etc.. How do they treat their parents and siblings? Do they have gratitude and appreciation? If they don't have gratitude for the people who have given them everything; can you do nearly as much for them? You can be sure that someone, who treats others poorly, will eventually treat you poorly as well. QUESTION ..5: Is there anything I'm hoping to change about this person after we're married? Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the intention of trying to 'improve'; them after they're married. As a colleague of mine puts it: 'You can probably expect someone to change after marriage for the worse' If you cannot fully accept this person the way they are now, then you are not ready to marry them. In conclusion, dating doesn't have to be difficult and treacherous. The key is to try leading a little more with your head and less with your heart. It pays to be as objective as possible when you are dating; to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to the key issues. Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up with a ring on your finger, you don't want to find yourself trouble because you didn't do your homework. Another perspective... There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance.. It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not going anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships around you. Pay attention...Which ones lift and which ones lean? Which ones encourage and which ones discourage? Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill? When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse? Which ones dont appreciate you? Which ones make you feel good, praises you, boosts you with loving and caring words or annotations. The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you...the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life. An African proverb states, 'Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one eye'; Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self esteem make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really that important. Do you bring out the best in each other? Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control? What do you bring to the relationship? Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain? You can't take someone to the altar to alter them. You can't make someone love you or make someone stay. If you develop self esteem, spiritual discernment, and 'a life'; you won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain. Seeking status, sex, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship. WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP STRONG IS: 1. TRUST 2. COMMUNICATION 3. INTIMACY 4. A SENSE OF HUMOR 5. SHARING TASKS 6. DAILY EXCHANGES (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes,etc.) 7. SHARING COMMON GOALS AND INTERESTS 8. GIVING EACH OTHER SPACE TO GROW WITHOUT FEELING INSECURE 9.GIVING EACH OTHER A SENSE OF BELONGING AND ASSURANCES OF COMMITMENT 10. CONCERN AND CARE FOR YOUR LOVER IN YOUR OWN WAYS. If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as   resentment withdrawal, abuse, neglect, and dishonesty; and pain will   replace.

 
 

when the south african comes to us...

hehehe...

despite all the excitement of world cup...south africa is now nearer to my heart... a family friend from Cape Town , Wisaal and her daughter is here for a visit.. they will be at our place for a week...

gosh..last night i realized how i missed my south african friends, the nature, my old house both in johanersburg and pretoria....

Even tough going back there has always been in my wish list ..i had other places in mind as well.. now i feel like the other places can come after south africa....boleh ker camtu? tapi errr.. bnyk lak kene spent duit.. honeymoon gi situ lah..leh? bile nak kawin ngan siapa tak pasti lagi tapi leh laa kalau nak request..hahhaha

Jangan ada benci

Just to share J

Ramai juga orang yang gagal dalam pergaulan kerana menyimpan perasaan BENCI dalam hati mereka. Tuhan itu maha adil. Perasaan benci dalam diri kita akan menyebabkan ramai orang mudah benci terhadap kita. Misalnya, orang yang membenci ibu bapanya mungkin akan dibenci oleh rakan-rakannya. Orang yang membenci jirannya atau bekas kekasihnya mungkin akan dapat kebencian daripada rakan sekerjanya atau malahan ketua jabatannya.

Justeru hapuskanlah segala perasaan benci daripada hati kita agar kita mudah menjalin hubungan dengan orang lain.

Kaedah Mengikis Benci

Cara yang terbaik untuk mengikis benci ialah dengan memaafkan semua orang sebelum tidur malam. Jika setiap malam sebelum tidur kita sentiasa mencuci muka, memberus gigi, membersihkan diri dan mengibas tempattidur, tidak bolehkah kita mencuci hati kita denganmemaafkan semua orang sebelum tidur? Pengalaman secara peribadi penulis menunjukkan bahawa dengan memaafkan semua orang sebelum tidur, kita akan dapat membersihkan hati serta menenangkan fikiran dan mudah menjalin hubungan baik dengan orang lain.

Faktor-faktor Yang Boleh Merangsang Kehebatan Dalam Pergaulan

Antara faktor yang menyebabkan kita mudah berinteraksi dengan orang lain dan orang lain mudah tertarik kepada kita ialah:

1) Jaga solat dan lakukan ibadah-ibadah khusus dan umum yang lain.

2) Sentiasa bersangka baik terhadap semua orang (walaupun kita perlu berwaspada setiap masa).

3) Sentiasa memberikan senyuman ikhlas kepada orang di sekeliling kita.

4) Banyakkan bersedekah, samada dalam bentuk wang, senyuman, bantuan tenaga, masa, nasihat, idea, pandangan, sokongan moral dan doa yang berterusan.

5) Sentiasa memperbanyakkan sabar. Nabi s. a. w. pernah berpesan supaya mencari 144 sebab sebelum kita memarahi orang.

6) Sentiasa ceria apabila berjumpa dengan orang lain. Pastikan setiap orang seronok berinteraksi dengan kita.

7) Pamerkan perasaan sayang dan sentiasa sayang-menyayangi antara satu dengan yang lain. Bentuk dan pamerkan sahsiah yang positif setiap masa. Peribadi yang kurang sopan akan menyebabkan orang lain rasa mual terhadap kita.

9) Amalkan sunnah-sunnah harian setiap masa dan insyaAllah orang lain akan tertarik kepada kita.

10) Jika wujud sebarang perasaan sombong atau benci terhadap orang lain, terus ingatkan diri kita tentang mati. Kita mudah insaf dan balik ke pangkal jalan apabila mengingati mati.

11) Sentiasa syukur dan redha atas pemberian Allah swt.

12) Sentiasa memberi salam dan ucap selamat kepada orang lain. Pemberian salam akan mengukuhkan hubungan sesama manusia.

13) Pamerkan simpati kepada setiap individu-individu yang memerlukan simpati dan perhatian.

14) Jadilah pendengar dan kawan yang setia.

15) Sampaikan berita baik tentang orang lain dan sembunyikan kelemahan atau keburukan orang lain.

16) Sentiasalah bermaaf-maafan sebelum berpisah dengan seseorang dan iringi perpisahan dengan doa.

Terlebih dahulu baiki diri untuk menarik perhatian orang lain terhadap diri kita, kita perlu terlebih dahulu menyayangi dan memperbaiki diri kita.

a great way to start off July..

im truly thankful...i have been upgraded myself from status "C" to "S" :)heheh..3 months in advanced.

Alhamdullillah..

Special thanks to Kak Rin and Syura as well....

Thank you to all those who supported me..hugsss...

Congratulations to Zaidah, Barri and Pye!