Dec 31, 2010

Last entry of the year

Before we step in 2011 I would like to take some time and muhasabah diri…


Jadilah orang yang bersyukur…


Hari ini sebelum kita mengatakan kata-kata yang tidak baik,
Fikirkan tentang seseorang yang tidak dapat berkata-kata sama sekali.

Sebelum kita mengeluh tentang rasa dari makanan,
Fikirkan tentang seseorang yang tidak punya apapun untuk dimakan.

Sebelum anda mengeluh tidak punya apa-apa,
Fikirkan tentang seseorang yang meminta-minta dijalanan.

Sebelum kita mengeluh bahawa kita buruk,
Fikirkan tentang seseorang yang berada pada keadaan yang terburuk di dalam hidupnya.

Sebelum mengeluh tentang suami atau isteri anda,
Fikirkan tentang seseorang yang memohon kepada Allah untuk dipertemukan jodoh dan diberikan teman hidup.

Hari ini sebelum kita mengeluh tentang hidup,
Fikirkan tentang seseorang yang meninggal dunia terlalu cepat.

Sebelum kita mengeluh tentang anak-anak kita,
Fikirkan tentang seseorang yang sangat ingin mempunyai anak tetapi dirinya mandul.

Sebelum kita mengeluh tentang rumah yang kotor kerana pembantu tidak mengerjakan tugasnya,
Fikirkan tentang orang-orang yang tinggal dijalanan.

Dan di saat kita letih dan mengeluh tentang pekerjaan,
Fikirkan tentang pengangguran, orang-orang cacat yang berharap mereka mempunyai pekerjaan seperti kita.

Sebelum kita menunjukkan jari dan menyalahkan orang lain,
Ingatlah bahawa tidak ada seorang pun yang tidak berdosa.

Dan ketika kita sedang bersedih dan hidup dalam kesusahan,
Tersenyum dan berterima kasihlah kepada Allah SWT bahawa kita masih hidup !

Dec 24, 2010

Something to add on our general knowledge :) warning: entry yang lebih panjang dari biasa

Oh I just love Wikipedia!

Seperti biasa hujung tahun is the time to sit back and reflect what has been achieved and failures in self development, work wise, relationships with family and friends and most importantly what has been planned at the beginning of the year has been achieved or not. Personally for the past several years I didn’t start a New Year resolution. Instead, I continued with what has not been achieved and simply add some new things in my list.

Ok dah lari saya dah lari topic. I was doing my daily browsing in Wikipedia and after reading the daily featured article I suddenly remembered that I wanted to do some research about Rome. Rome has always been in my places to go besides Mekah, South Africa, Korea and Australia. Why Rome? Romantic la of coz! Hehe.. taklah.. I just want to go and see the architectures. Actually lepas tengok When in Rome perasaan nak gi sana makin bertambah. Eh! tapi itu factor romatic jugak! Eh apa pun hopefully one day boleh gi sana, InsyaAllah.

As I was searching about Rome and the famous Colosseum, keluar several related articles regarding the Seven Wonders of the World. Sekali lagi, saya dah lari dari objective sebenar. I just thought it would be interesting to share this facts and information with everyone. After reading all this saya rasa banyak dana yang perlu dikumpul and my list for places to go perlu ditambah lagi?

So here goes...



The Seven Wonders of the Ancient World (from left to right, top to bottom): Great Pyramid of Giza, Hanging Gardens of Babylon, Temple of Artemis at Ephesus, Statue of Zeus at Olympia, Mausoleum of Halicarnassus, Colossus of Rhodes, and the Lighthouse of Alexandria as depicted by 16th-century Dutch artist Marten Heemskerk.


Seven Wonders of the Ancient World

Everyone will only have the opportunity to visit the Great Pyramid of Giza as the other 6 wonders do no longer exist. Jom pi Egypt....

1. Great Pyramid of Giza
Date of Construction: 2584-2561 BC
Builder: Egyptians
Notable Feature: Believed to have been built as the tomb of fourth dynasty Egyptian Pharaoh Khufu
Date of Destruction: Still in Existence
Cause of Destruction: Still in Existence
Modern Location: Giza Necropolis, Egypt

2.Hanging Gardens of Babylon
Date of Construction: Around 600 BC
Builder: Babylonians
Notable Feature: Diodorus Siculus described multi-levelled gardens reaching 22 meters (75 feet) high, complete with machinery for circulating water. Large trees grew on the roof. Built by Nebuchadnezzar II for his wife Amytis of Media.
Date of Destruction: After 1st century BC
Cause of Destruction: Earthquake
Modern Location: Al Hillah, Babil Province, Iraq

3.Statue of Zeus at Olympia
Date of Construction: 466-456 BC (Temple) 435 BC (Statue)
Builder: Greeks
Notable Feature: Occupied the whole width of the aisle of the temple that was built to house it, and was 12 meters (40 feet) tall.
Date of Destruction: 5th-6th centuries AD
Cause of Destruction: Fire
Modern Location: Olympia, Greece


4.Temple of Artemis at Ephesus
Date of Construction: c. 550 BC
Builder: Lydians, Persians, Greeks
Notable Feature: Dedicated to the Greek goddess Artemis, it took 120 years to build. Herostratus burned it down to achieve lasting fame. Rebuilt by Alexander the Great only to be destroyed again by the Goths.
Date of Destruction: 356 BC (by Herostratus) AD 262 (by the Goths)
Cause of Destruction: Arson by Herostratus, Plundering
Modern Location: near Selçuk, Izmir Province, Turkey

5.Mausoleum of Maussollos at Halicarnassus
Date of Construction: 351 BC
Builder: Carians, Persians, Greeks
Notable Feature: Stood approximately 45 meters (150 feet) tall, with each of the four sides adorned with sculptural reliefs. Origin of the word mausoleum, the tomb built for Mausolus, a satrap in the Persian Empire
Date of Destruction: by AD 1494
Cause of Destruction: The original structure was destroyed by flood. Then a new structure was built and was damaged by an earthquake and eventually disassembled by European Crusaders.
Modern Location: Bodrum, Turkey

6.Colossus of Rhodes
Date of Construction: 292-280 BC
Builder: Greeks
Notable Feature: A giant statue of the Greek god Helios, god of the sun, c. 35 m (110 ft) tall.
Date of Destruction: 226 BC
Cause of Destruction: Earthquake
Modern Location: Rhodes, Greece

7.Lighthouse of Alexandria
Date of Construction: c. 280 BC
Builder: Hellenistic Egypt, (Greeks)
Notable Feature: Between 115 and 135 meters (380 – 440 ft) high, it was among the tallest structures on Earth for many centuries. The name of the island that it was built on, Pharos, eventually became the Latin word for lighthouse, pharos.
Date of Destruction: AD 1303-1480
Cause of Destruction: Earthquake
Modern Location: Alexandria, Egypt



Seven Wonders of the Medieval World

When I was in UK, I managed to visit the first wonder of the mediaeval world with my beloved siblings. Hence, 1 down...6 to Go! Bolehkah? Sampaikah? Bilakah? InsyaAllah kalau ada rezeki. Maybe bila dah ada kids kot baru khatam semua tempat LOL


i just noticed i dont have a good picture with the batu-batu..sibuk amik pic kat padang jer..zasss

1.Stonehenge
Modern Location: Wiltshire, United Kingdom

2.Colosseum
Modern Location: Rome, Italy

3.Catacombs of Kom el Shoqafa
Modern Location: Alexandria, Egypt

4.Great Wall of China
Modern Location: Northern China

5.Porcelain Tower of Nanjing
Modern Location: South bank of the Yangtze in Nanjing, China.

6.Hagia Sophia
Modern Location: Istanbul, Turkey

7.Leaning Tower of Pisa
Modern Location: Pisa, Italy

Did you guys know that there are also the:- New 7 Wonders of the Modern World 7 Wonders of the Modern World 7 Natural Wonders of the World 7 Wonders of the Industrial World

Well for further reading you can read here! Dah panjang sangat dah entry ni.. -_-


credits to :Wikipedia

i think...


i'd have to agree with the critics!

this is totally hideous!

they could have done better..

poor William and Kate... nasib la the rest of their memorabilia is not too bad..

for those who are not following the Royal Engagement , you can read a bit about them here

i hope Kate will be like Diana.. we will see ! please dont dissapoint me Kate -_-

or i can say

please William..dont be like Charles! hehehe

Dec 17, 2010

Closer to closer

Currently trying to get myself together...

The question should I? Do I even have the guts?

It will definitely go against my principles...

Will it destroy whatever that has been built?

Have been rehearsing in my mind

The race is almost at the end of the finish line

Arghh i just don't know..

There is no right or wrong answer

There will never be a perfect time


One thing for sure is that I have waited more than i taught I could...


It would just be a waste of energy and time if I just give up now....Yes???



So glad it is the last week of work of this year.. rasa cam I just need some tranquillity.. Will I get it during the hols? Maybe I'll just drown myself with some excessive exercising

Bak kata teaming with passion...


Challenge!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dec 15, 2010

she is now 6 months...

she already started her solids... how time flies~



~from her akikah, tq ika~




~when i sing she will smile..i guess my voice aint that bad:P~

Dec 14, 2010

she is now 2 years and 10 months...


~us having fun at i-city~



~its party time~



~entertaining adik~


~this is why am so proud of her..brilliant!for a girl her age~

Dec 6, 2010

i super love this!

walaupun badan tak ingat nya sakit for thesevarl days.. saya sangat suka aktiviti atv ini!

location:kemensah
date:30 october 2010
event:aktiviti riadah bersama-sama teman-teman ofis and bff raz!

how it started? well Gya and I was having lunch.. we were pointing out how stressfull work and life was at that time and we needed some extreame activity.. Gya said that Ennie was planning an ATV Session and whether I wanted to join them..I was so excited!

after several days, Ennie started gathering the info's and the people who wanted to join..I decided to invite Raz ..ntah kenapa she was the first person that cross my mind :)

let me share some of the pics with you guys.. tak banyak pun.. kalau you guys nak try.. its rm150 for a 2 hours plus route..inclusive of a short break at the Sofea Jane Water Falls..

~group photos before the ATV ride




~group A on our ATV'S, I look totally fat in this pic tapi sbb this is the only pic yang ada semua and atas ATV...



~us in the water after arriving back at the base



~Sofea Jane Waterfalls, why Sofea Jane? sebab penah shoot movie kat sini..tak ingat cerita apa



~bff and i :)

Dec 5, 2010

~first and last ker? we will see

presenting....















me in action!!!!




mmg tak la kan.. penakut sungguh ada hati nak bwk cam pro dua orang nie? kalau korang tgk diorg bila buka helmet cam bebudak sekolah lagi diorg nie..tapi bawak laju tak ingat...

anyways, yesterday i tried playing Go-cart for the very first time..mmg great exprience..walaupun takut tahap tak tau nak cakap apa pada mulanya at the end saya sangat happy...

event: PPPM Sport's Club Grand Prix 2010
location : Shah Alam Stadium Circuit
company: City Karting Enterprise
time: 1130am-430pm

congrats to the organizers for the yummy food and great event! baju yang disponsor pun sangat cantiks!

my review:-

my practice session : i was first to leave the track and i was the last to arrive.. leh bayangkan tak slow camana?? heheh.. the rest sempat potong satu lap and aiman siap lambai-lambai lagi sambil gelak-gelak...cit!

my qualifying session:- makin ada confident and mmg dah laju...laju sampai terpusing 3 kali di corner yang sama..kih kih kih..but it was super fun! lepas tension..kali ni takder saper potong saya..sbb mmg last to leave the pit sbb cart saya rosak and terpaksa tukarr.. giving myself a pat on the back sbb walaupun keluar lambat takder saper ptg saya seperti practice round..hhehe..eh ke ader? lupa lak..

final session:- of coz la tak masuk! diorg nak top 16 jer..based on the timing during the qualifying session ..

before i continue.. tunjuk dulu cart and track at the Shah Alam Stadium Circuit..kalau you guys nak try the rate is rm35 for 10 minutes.. buka everyday till 7pm..dari pukul brapa tak ingat la pulak..








the prizes for the PPPM grand prix is divided to 4 category:-

best male driver
best female
contructors category
best overall driver!

i consider myself a lucky gal semalam sbb dapat team mates yang tak kurang hebatnya di atas track..hasilnya saya yang bawak ala-ala makan angin turut serta mendapat trophy and RM300 cash voucher from Jusco! yeay!

Team Mclaren[kami] telah mendapat tempat kedua untuk Contructors Category.. tempat pertama dimenangi oleh Norman, Mizi & lagi sorang saya tak ingat nama:( tempat ketiga telah dimenangi oleh Pn Jam's & family


presenting the racers from the Mclaren Team! woot woot!


~h.a.z.r.u.l~



~a.i.m.a.n~



~a.l.i.a~



The best male category dimenangi oleh encik Faiz Rosli dari team Data..tak ada pula picturenya sekarang..

the best female pula dimenangi oleh Huda from the SPDF Team

~ the champion for the female category! we are so pround of you huda~





~my two lovely bosses~

~pn jam



~kak azrin




~the contructor's category winners~




sebenarnya banyak jugak gambar saya posing-posing semalam tapi pilih satu jer la utk tatapan..errrr...

~me and the adorable "safety car"~




~lastly.. the group photo.. oh i love this photo!~





pics credit to: mr norman hafiz

Dec 1, 2010

current favourites..

love the song...

love the lyrics...

love the video clip...

one in a million~~~Ne Yo

Jet setter
Go getter
Nothing better
Call me Mr. been there done that
Top model chick to your every day hood rat
Less than all but more than a few
But I've never met one like you

Been all over the world
Done a little bit of everything
Little bit of everywhere
With a little bit of everyone
All the girls I've been with
Things I've seen it takes much to impress
But sure enough you go it makes your soul stand up from all the rest

I can be in love
But I just don't know
Baby one thing is for certain
Whatever you do it's working
All the girls don't matter
In your presence can't do what you do
There's a million girls around but I don't see no one but you

Girl you're so one in a million
You are
Baby you're the best I ever had
Best I ever had
And I'm certain that
There ain't nothing better
No there ain't nothing better than this

You're not a regular girl
You don't give a damn about your look
Talking about I can't do it for you
But you can do it for yourself
Even though that ain't so
Baby cause my dough don't know how to end
But that independent thing I'm with it
All we do is win baby

I could be in love
But I just don't know
Baby one thing is for certain
Whatever you do it's working
All the girls don't matter
In your presence can't do what you do
There's a million girls around but I don't see no one but you

Baby you're so one in a million
You are
Baby you're the best I ever had
Best I ever had
And I'm certain that
There ain't nothing better
No there ain't nothing better than this
Girl you're so one in a million
You are
Baby you're the best I ever had
Best I ever had
And I'm certain that
There ain't nothing better
No there ain't nothing better than this

Timing girl
Only one in the world
Just one of a kind
She mine

Ooh all that I can think about is what this thing could be
A future baby
Baby you're one of a kind
That means that you're the only one for me
Only one for me
Baby (girl) you're so one in a million
You are
Baby you're the best I ever had
Best I ever had
And I'm certain that
There ain't nothing better
No there ain't nothing better than this
Girl you're so one in a million
You are
Baby you're the best I ever had
Best I ever had
And I'm certain that
There ain't nothing better
No there ain't nothing better than this

Nov 18, 2010

It’s all about personal boundaries..

If you just don't have that in you will definitely be lost. Further reading on personal boundaries:-

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personal_boundaries


 

Sebenarnya apa yang nak share takder kene mengena pun ngan topic diatas.


 

My a.n.a.l.y.s.e p.a.r.a.l.y.s.e mode is back on. Sometimes up to the extend it brings discomfort to myself. I feel as if all of my day to day activity revolves around the issues

The uncertainty and the questions without answers are killing me.

Im beginning to feel that I might need to follow what they are suggesting me to do. But then again I would definitely sacrifice my happiness. To go against it might be a bad idea as well. So how do I deal with this type of situation?

Nov 15, 2010

Story of Appreciation

One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company. He passed the first interview; the director did the last interview, made the last decision. The director discovered from the CV, that the youth's academic result is excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never has a year he did not score.

The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarship in school?" and the youth answered "none".

The director asked, “Is it your father pay for your school fees?" the youth answered, my father passed away when I was one year old, it is my mother who paid for my school fees.

The director asked, " Where did your mother worked?" the youth answered, my mother worked as cloth cleaner.

The director requested the youth to show his hand, the youth showed a pair of hand that is smooth and perfect to the director.

The director asked, “Did you ever help your mother washed the cloth before?" The youth answered, never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books, furthermore, and my mother can wash cloths faster than me.

The director said, “I had a request, when you go back today, go and help to clean your mother's hand, and then see me tomorrow morning”.

The youth felt that its chance of landing the job is high, when he went back, he happily wanted to clean his mother's hand, his mother feel strange, happy but mixed with fear and she showed her hand to the kid. The youth cleaned his mother's hand slowly, his tear drop down as he did that. It is first time he found his mother's hand is so wrinkled, and there are so many bruises in her hand. Some bruises incite pains so strong that shiver her mother's body when cleaned with water. This is the first time the youth realized and experienced that it is this pair of hand that washed the cloth everyday to earn him the school fees, the bruises in the mother's hand is the price that the mother paid for his graduation and academic excellence and probably his future. After finishing the cleaning of his mother hand, the youth quietly cleaned all remaining clothes for his mother. That night, mother and sons talked for a very long time. Next morning, the youth went to the director's office

The director noticed the tear in the youth's eye, asked: “Can you tell you what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?" The youth answered, “I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes”.

The director asked, “please tell me your feeling."

The youth said;

Number 1: I knew what appreciation, without my mother is, there would not the successful me today.

Number 2: I knew how to work together with my mother, then only I can realize how difficult and tough to get something done.

Number 3: I knew the importance and value of family relationship.


The director said, " This is what I am asking, I want to recruit a person that can appreciate the help of other, a person that knew the suffering of others to get thing done, and a person that would not put money as his only goal in life to be my manager. You are hired.
Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates, every employees worked diligently and in a team, the company's result improved tremendously.

“A child who has been protected and habitually given whatever he did, he developed "entitlement mentality" and always put himself first. He is ignorance of his parent's effort. When he started work, he assumed every people must listen to him, and when he became a manager, he would never know how suffering his employee and always blame others. For this kind of people, he can have good result, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement, he will grumble and full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parent, did we love the kid or destroy the kid?”


You can let your kid lived in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experienced it. After a meal, let them washed their plate and bowl together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parent are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your kid learns how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learn the ability to work with others to get thing done.

Nov 9, 2010

just to share

We can give up easily. The more we give up, the quicker we return to square one. Then we complain, why we are still here whereas others are far ahead of us. I realise if we have the 3Cs- ceasing, complaining and comparing, we will never go far.We will be here no matter where others are. Only if we drop our 3Cs and get ourselves the 3As-aspire, acknowledge and attune ourselves to our goals only then will we move forward.

Quoted from O

Nov 8, 2010

sweet november has arrived~~

in a blink of an eye 2010 have reached November..how time flies....

started this month with ample gratitue to Allah SWT for what He has Blessed me throughout this year...the year that started off with a lot of sorrow have slowly developed and strengthen the inner me.. I am truly Blessed..Amin..less than 2 months to go of 2010...

was down with a major cough,flu, sore throat and fever for the past 5 days.. Doc said it was a throat infection and viral fever.. i say its my body reaching its limits and needed some rest and sleep..heheh...

last month i celebrated the birthdays of the special people in my life which I have yet to write about! an incredible ATV session..pun belum sempat nak bercerita..will wirte soon biler berkesempatan...

oh ya.. my body nya weight sux at the moment...biler nak kembali ke 41kg nie? tak pun 43 kg ker... been at 46kg too long..sobs...ada baju yg perlu dimuatkan hujung bulan nie... huwaaaaa

my oh so random:accepting more people are calling me Lia nowdays..For the longest i could remember ..there are only 2 person who would call me Lia and I am only glad to answer by them if they call me Lia.. the 2 person is my beloved Mama and my Subang Jayarian friend Faradina...

ever since since I joined TM most of my friends call me Lia..even my bosses call me Lia.. may not sound strange to you.. but it definately feels strange to me :P alia pulak yg unusual nowdays kat office nie...

anyways.. lots of weddings and engagements to attend for the upcoaming weeks.. sorry if I cant make it to all .. will definately try my best to be there...iema ! you've got 16 more days..chaiyokkkk

Congrats juger to Wanny on the marvelous cabutan bertuah! you are indeed bertuah :)

"Congratulations to Y.O.U [you know who you are]on the recent news! am so happy for you.. cant wait till you share it with the others..:)"

ahh yess... Lil Akilah was discharged last week after 4 days being admitted.. Thank you to those who came to visit!

been feeling a distance with a certain someone nowdays..i miss the times we use to share everthing..

its has been awhile too since I last met my Subang Jayarian friends... i missed alot of the "aktiviti bersukan bersama " demi obligations towards my family.. family comes first..you guys paham kan?? you know me..busy little bee.. cant wait for our next teh tarik session..

oh ya..i cant believe i watch a movie every week for the past 3 weeks..sempat selit disamping masa yang terhad..i had a good laugh...

gonna be lacked of dose again soon as there will be more travelling~~

till next time.. adios amigos...

ps: im so not up to date in Gossip Girls, Greys Anatomy, Glee, OTH, arghh..bnyknya.. silap2 nnt kene beli DVDs pastu hibernasi... Ms Bass, any new stock for me?? wink wink...

Oct 22, 2010

danke schun TM...



eh tetiba yer.. tapi ini mmg perkara sebenar...

saya ingin mengucapkan ribuan terima kasih kerana memberi saya peluang menghadiri 2 talk berikut during the "Love Your Body For Life" week..[skema tak hengat..kui kui kui]:-

pertamanya kerana memberi saya peluang utk berjumpa dengan Josiah Ng...


credits to: http://josiahng.wordpress.com/

eh..bukan dia... tapi......................





ni haaaa...................



presenting Dr. Andy Ng, Josiah's father..................




with the topic "Stress & Anger Management"

it was indeed a good session.. light yet very informative...

i love that most of what he taught can be practiced everyday...

okay.. let me share some key points with u guys..

~sustain a close loving relationship with everyone around you..
~value ourselves
~perceive reality as it is..
~deal reasonably with others
~establish and maintain close relationship
~feel a sense of fulfillment that makes the effort worthwhile

in dealing with depresion.. always go for a plant based diet..take wholegrain..and eat alot of fruits...


3 ways to destress or release ur anger...

~journaling
~music therapy
~laughter therapy

woot..woot..happy trying!



~ni kami selepas kurang stress

keduanya... memberi saya peluang bertemu En Kamal Effendi Hashim..

he's a famous Crime Analyst...

Prior to this i have not heard of him before..

terima kasih kepada Mrs Manager kerana mengajak zz and I pergi mendengar Talk nie..malangnya zz tak dapat join..

with his topic "Applied Safety in Everyday Life"

now i know why semua berpusu-pusu nak dapatkan tempat duduk di hadapan bila tukar bilik seminar..

best dengar cara Mr Kamal nie bercakap...

after today I will be more cautious...

and i think i need to go shopping for new bags..hehehe.. sbbnya most of my bags mampu buat saya "Drop Dead" secepat mungkin dan menjadi tumpuan peragut dan sewaktu dengannya...

ok..ni En Kamal kita... sorry for the blur pics.. beri-beri ku ni kalau lighting tak bgs dia pun sama naik tak bgs..







dengan salah sorang peminat en kamal~~mrs manager

u can visit his blog bila kelapangan..


http://kamalfndhashim.blogspot.com/





till next time bila rajin....

tschus!

Oct 11, 2010

The day after ten ten ten...

Olaaa... it has been long since i wrote...my hectic schedule at work, some traumatic experience, juggling some responsibilities at home, my sadness with a certain related issue, my happiness, has disabled me from any blogging activities...

Rasa macam tak menang tangan...

Current mode drizzling mode inside... today i woke up on the wrong side of the bed...started of my insufficient sleep due to a horrendous dream.. or i may call it NIGHTMARE...

Mimpi .. hanyalah mainan tidur.. Usually slalu dapat mimpi-mimpi yang best-best...this time however..mmg tak best lansung.. but if the dream is so real macam scary la jugak kan... i could actually remember all the details...sampai sampai office pagi tadi cam search kat website2 tafsir mimpi nie....to share or not to share with frens?? Currently the answer is not to share the details.. kang macam2 interpretation org lagi saya stress....

Gi office tak bwk phone pulak.. nasib baik my brother berbaik hati utk drop by before heading to work..

Pastu early morning terdengar pulak satu jawapan dari satu pertanyaan lagi sorang..prior to this, rasa cam its ok if tak ingat..suddenly bila realize yg the person is clueless rasa cam err... well.. I'm human..lagi-lagi laaa there's this feeling bahawasanya the people i rely most to share my happiness and sadness cam dah jarang jumpa...

Ok.. enough with the drama sadis ..huhuh...October is gonna be a great month full of celebration...

Upcoming birthdays of my bff.. Wanny and Hasanah..

Weddings of Putra, Maria, Dina, Shukor, Neddy... Congratulations to all! GooD LucK in married life....

Great news on upcoming engagements and weddings.. will be there insyaAllah; if God permits...

Lil Akilah will be 2 years 7 months..makin bijak

Lil Afifah will be 4 months... adorable

Planning an ATV session in Kemensah.yeay.. walaupun cam takut tapi need the rush.. .saper nak join..BBM, ym, sms semua dipersilakan..:P


 

Petang nie ada bridesmate duty... next week cam nak kene gi fitting.. iema.. kalau tak muat camana ??:(


 

Ps: sorry entry cam serabut hbs.. i guess after all this time tak menulis cam makin tak terer lak ..kui kui kui... eh ke nak blame my drained brain yang penuh dengan numbers...

    ~***~Niesa... saya rindu awak juga... jom2 teh tarik!


 


 

Oct 4, 2010

When kita jer kene amik hati org yang kecik hati

Hari ini saya jiwa serabut. Rasa nak nangis. Rasa nak marah. Rasa nak muntah.

Apakah? Mengapakah?

Nak kata pms lambat lagi patut...

Sep 30, 2010

just a reminder to myself...

got this from zaidah..very interesting..


Personality:
1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment
3. Don't over do; keep your limits
4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does
5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip
6. Dream more while you are awake
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.
Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile and laugh more
14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Community:
15. Call your family often
16. Each day give something good to others
17. Forgive everyone for everything
18. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6
19. Try to make at least three people smile each day
20. What other people think of you is none of your business
21. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:
22. Put GOD first in anything and everything that you think, say and do.
23. GOD heals everything
24. Do the right things
25. However good or bad a situation is, it will change
26. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
27. The best is yet to come
28. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful
29. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it
30. If you know GOD you will always be happy. So, be happy.

Sep 29, 2010

The day I miss all of them...

As i was listening to Ahmir's version of Bye Bye..tiba-tiba mata bergenang ....rasa cam miss all those who were close to me that have passed away...

This is for my peoples who just lost somebody
Your best friend, your baby, your man or your lady
Put your hand way up high.
We will never say bye. No, no, no

Mamas, daddys, sisters, brothers, friends and cousins.
This is for my peoples who lost their grandmothers.
Lift your head to the sky
Cause we will never say bye

As a child there were them times
I didn't get it but you kept me in line
I didn't know why you didn't show up sometimes
On Sunday mornings and I missed you
But I'm glad we talked through

All them grown folk things separation brings
You never let me know it, you never let it show
Because you loved me and obviously
there's so much more left to say
If you were with me today face to face

Never knew I could hurt like this
and everyday life goes on
I wish I could talk to you for a while
Miss you but I try not to cry
As time goes by

And it's true that you've reached a better place
Still I'd give em the world to see your face
And be right here next to you
But it's like you're gone too soon
Now the hardest thing to do is say

Bye bye
Bye bye, bye bye, bye bye
Bye bye, bye bye, bye bye
Bye bye, bye bye, bye bye
Bye bye

You never got a chance to see how good I've done
And you never got to see me back at number one
I wish that you were here to celebrate together
I wish that we could spend the holidays together

I remember when you used to tuck me in at night
With the teddy bear you gave me that I held so tight
I thought you were so strong
You'd make it through whatever
It's so hard to accept the fact you're gone forever

I never knew I could hurt like this
And everyday life goes on
I wish I could talk to you for a while
Miss you but I try not to cry
As time goes by

And it's true that you've reached a better place
Still I'd give em the world to see your face
and be right here next to you
But it's like you're gone too soon
Now the hardest thing to do is say

Bye bye
Bye bye, bye bye, bye bye
Bye bye, bye bye, bye bye
Bye bye, bye bye, bye bye
Bye bye

This is for my peoples who just lost somebody
Your best friend, your baby, your man or your lady
Put your hand way up high
We will never say bye

Mamas, daddys, sisters, brothers, friends and cousins
This is for my peoples who lost their grandmothers
Lift your head to the sky
Cause we will never say bye, bye.

I never knew I could hurt like this (I never knew it)
And everyday life goes on I wish (Everyday of my life I wish)
I could talk to you for a while (I wish)
Miss you but I try not to cry (I wish I wish as time goes by)
As time goes by

And it's true that you've reached a better place
Still I'd give em the world to see your face
And be right here next to you
But it's like you're gone too soon
Now the hardest thing to do is say

[Repete in background]
[Bye bye
Bye bye, bye bye, bye bye]

It's hard to say bye bye bye bye bye bye
So come on somebody sing it with me
Wave your hands up high
Ay 'Cause this is for my peoples who just lost somebody
So this is for everybody
Just lift your hands to the sky
'Cause we will never say bye bye

Sep 8, 2010

taken from Eita:)

Sebab stress ada meeting pukul 2 pm di hari yang saya sepatutnya balik awal sebab nak balik kampung..i decided to hiburkan hati dengan membuat tag.. Eita..alia amik yer.. heheh..


Starting time : 1.00pm
Name : Alia
Sisters : 1
Brothers : 1
Shoe size : uk 3..us 4..
Height : tak sure laa pulak :P
Where do you live : Subang Jaya

Have you ever been on a plane : yes
Swam in the ocean : yes
Fallen asleep at school : of coz :P
Broken someone's heart : im not sure..
Fell off your chair : not that i remembered
Sat by the phone all night waiting for someone to call : adaa...

Saved e-mails : the good ones... ada ada certain info supaya leh ciwi-ciwi sorang nanti :P
What is your room like : simple.. rasa cam nak buat room makeover boleh?
What’s right beside you: my planner
What is the last thing you ate : sandwich

Chicken pox : tapi dah kene measels for 8 weeks..
Sore throat : yes
Stitches : ehem... ni blame on my impatience sebab nak buat susu time kecik...
Broken nose : oh tolong laa jangan .. kang k****** j***** makin menyerlah

Do you...
Believe in love at first sight : now i do..

Who was/were...
The last person you danced with : my niece...
Last made you smile : zaidah

You last yelled at : let me just keep this to myself

Today did you...
Talk to someone you like : yes
Kissed anyone : my mama
Get sick : belum lagi
Talk to an ex : nope..sekian
Miss someone : insufficiant dose~~


Who do you really hate: hate is just a big word
Do you like your hand-writing : nope..
Are your toe nails painted : nope
Whose bed other than yours would you rather sleep in : my mama's

What color shirt are you wearing now : purple
Are you a friendly person : yes..eh..betul ker?

Do you have any pets : bantal busuk kire tak?
Do you sleep with the TV on: ter selalunya

What are you doing right now : doing this tag
Can you handle the truth : sometimes
Are you closer to your mother or father : my mama

Do you eat healthy : sometimes

Do you still have pictures of you & your ex : ader kot

If you're having a bad day, who are you most likely to go to : my friends

Are you loud or quiet most of the time : not so loud..tapi not so quite
Are you confident : sometimes

5 things I was doing 10 years ago:
1. wearing colour coordinated clothes..tahap maksima:P
2. hating physics!
3. missing my matgwar frens

4. missing my sport activities
5. adapting to a new phase of my life

5 things I would do if I were a billionaire:
1. clear off all my debts

2. provide the best for my family
3. go back to South Africa!

4. travel the world
5. bukak my own spa


5 of my bad habits:
1. still simpan bantal busuk
2.suka give others priority rather than mine

3. analyse paralyse
4. nangis time org lain kahwin
5. suka beli kasut..sekian

5 places I've lived/living:
1. London
2. Subang Jaya

3. Seri Kembangan
4. Johanersburg
5. Pretoria


Sep 7, 2010

my wonderful weekend~~~~



despite my hectic schedule i had a great weekend....

all my stress mode was wipped away :)


started off with Friday.. had iftar with the SMSJians.. :) it has been like forever since i last met them...

~10 years of friendship~


saturday...went to hunting for my baju raya in Shah Alam...this year nya theme still sama like last year.. plain! ada jugak buat baju cotton..loving both! thanks to Mr A for helping me decide..later that evening gi warehouse sale kat seri petaling but I ended up buying things for my dad jer..

on Sunday... i had a great sleep.. mmg fresh hbs bila bangun tu..mana tak nya.. after Subuh tu tido balik and i woke up at 1230pm ...

We celebrated Mama's Birthday masa berbuka that day.. A meal made out of lurve by all the siblings...

menu:
Grilled lamb
Beef Wraps
Avacado Salad
Special Potato Salad
Deep fried Mushroom

Specially ordered Carrot cake [Mama's Favourite]

gLAD mama loved the food, the gifts and the company :)


~the simple yet yummy carrot cake~


~meal made out of love~





~lepas nie yang ni boleh buat slalu~



~~ ps: lets ignore all the stress lain yang berkaitan hidup..heheh.. cherish the happy moments..

Sep 2, 2010

pengalaman pahit...

pernahkah anda memakan peria atau juga dikenali sebagai bitter gourd ???



yer.. im sure ramai yang pernah mencuba... lebih-lebih lagi dimasak bersama telur.. sungguh enak sekali walaupun ada sedikit rasa pahit....yer.. mama saya suka buat masakan ini utk menggalakan kami makan peria .. mama selalu menekan kan kebaikkan peria ni....



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namun,

pernahkah anda memakan peria katak????



size nya lebih kecil....

pada kebiasaannya ia akan direbus dan dijadikan ulam...

well.. i had my first try merdeka aritu...

papa and mama mmg slalu makan.. and usually i will avoid it...tapi somehow.. sambal belacan and the peria katak memanggil-manggilku ...so i took a small piece, cicah sambal belacan and off it went in my mouth...


it was the most bitter food ive ever tasted!! seriusly....

but after some time..when it blended with all the "lauk pauk" and rice.. it didnt taste all that bad..macam pembuka selera pula macam ulam ulaman yang lain...

mama at the side was smiling while saying out loud all the benefits of the bitter gourd...

however that will be as far I would go....

to try

THIS!!!



will be never...kui kui kui..kang hbs deria rasa ku sampai tak tau bila...

anyways.. here are some of the benefits of bitter gourd... for those yang belum cuba boleh laa mencuba :)

Health Benefits



Blood disorders: Bitter gourd juice is highly beneficial for treating blood disorders like blood boils and itching due to toxemia. Mix 2 ounces of fresh bitter gourd juice with some lime juice. Sip it slowly on an empty stomach daily for between four and six months and see improvement in your condition.

Cholera: In early stages of cholera, take two teaspoonfuls juice of bitter gourd leaves, mix with two teaspoonfuls white onion juice and one teaspoonful lime juice. Sip this concoction daily till you get well.

Diabetes mellitus: Bitter melon contains a hypoglycemic compound
(a plant insulin) that is highly beneficial in lowering sugar levels in blood and urine. Bitter melon juice has been shown to significantly improve glucose tolerance without increasing blood insulin levels.

Energy: Regular consumption of bitter gourd juice has been proven to improve energy and stamina level. Even sleeping patterns have been shown to be improved/stabilized.

Eye problems: The high beta-carotene and other properties in bitter gourd makes it one of the finest vegetable-fruit that help alleviate eye problems and improving eyesight.

Hangover: Bitter melon juice may be beneficial in the treatment of a hangover for its alcohol intoxication properties. It also help cleanse and repair and nourish liver problems due to alcohol consumption.

Immune booster: This bitter juice can also help to build your immune system and increase your body's resistance against infection.

Piles: Mix three teaspoonfuls of juice from bitter melon leaves with a glassful of buttermilk. Take this every morning on empty stomach for about a month and see an improvement to your condition. To hasten the healing, use the paste of the roots of bitter melon plant and apply over the piles.

Psoriasis: Regular consumption of this bitter juice has also been known to improve psoriasis condition and other fungal infections like ring-worm and athletes feet.

Respiratory disorders: Take two ounces of fresh bitter melon juice and mix with a cup of honey diluted in water. Drink daily to improve asthma, bronchitis and pharyngitis.

Toxemia: Bitter gourd contains beneficial properties that cleanses the blood from toxins. Sip two teaspoonfuls of the juice daily to help cleanse the liver. Also helpful in ridding jaundice for the same reasons.


credits: google image & http://www.juicing-for-health.com/bitter-gourd-benefits.html

Aug 29, 2010

this is what happens...

when i've had hours of bed rest...and I'm fully awake..

movie in bed!!



sorry mr A, i terpaksa curi tag line u..

but.............





movie The Back-Up Plan was Da Bomb!

Aug 22, 2010

this week has been great...

secara overall i think this week has been good :) despite several events that involves "anger"..hehhe i'm just going take the happy memories...


had iftar with the whole family on the weekends... mama's cooking as usual was the bomb..
had iftar with hasanah and raz...
had iftar with zaidah ,sue and kay...

several more events yang tak sesuai dishare out in open juga membuat kan daku gumbira :P

to make things even better i lost 2 kg.. see?? when im happy i drop these kg's ...im not denying berpuasa juga membantu :)

syura dah gave birth last saturday ..so all her task has been offically handovered to me... doakan everything goes well yer peeps...


lalalalal~~~ gonna start monday with more energy...

Aug 19, 2010

cepatnya masa berlalu...

how time flies....sedar tak sedar it has already been a year... rasa cam baru aritu jer interview utk masuk bekerja nie...

untuk makluman, today's date 19th August was the date i had my interview last year...alaa interview yang hbs like lambat gila tu :P

i remembered i wore my favourite tie rack scarf with a white shirt...i remembered wearing my black Clark's kitten heals..i remembered sbb cuak i only drank a cup of coffee..i remembered sbb lapar sangat time hbs interview tu i literally rasa nak pengsan and sampai umah jer i mkn cam naga:P..i remembered meeting my ex roomate nea who coincidentally had the same interview session with me..i remembered meeting sue for the first time while waiting for our session..i remembered meeting zaidah for the first time as we both were in the same interview session.. i remembered meeting en fadzil for the first time as he was one of the panel...

alhamdullillah i was accepted.. I am indeed grateful as I have no family members who work here and I am not a YTM scholar/loan holder..

special thanks to mrs fariza hanum sebab pass my resume to the HR :)

Aug 18, 2010

pffttttt

I'm kinda disturbed with what had happened yesterday... Furthermore its the Ramadhan!

Aug 16, 2010

smile and the whole world will smile with you...

tajuk diatas adalah inspiring words from my beloved bantal busuk :P anyways.....


~ today was a great day



indescribable...mmg senyum sampai telinga laaaa

Aug 11, 2010

currently reading...






a belated birthday gift from ms rifqah nordin...truely inspiring and i'm really taking my time reading it....i know understand why you love this book so much:)

anyways..as far as I can recall, its my first birthday book :P siap ada little message inside...slalu asyik dapat things jer..hehehh..super love...



ps: the movie is coming out soon...jom...furthermore its Julia Roberts!!

nak ni boley?





rasa cam dah lama tak beli make-up..heheheh...cam comel jer packaging....

Aug 7, 2010

b.l.a.n.k.

to wait or not wait...

to think or not think...

to ignore or not ignore...

to cry or not cry...

to be delusional or not delusional...

to be ignorant or not ignorant...

to hide or not hide...

to smile or not smile....

to assume or not assume...

to wonder or not wonder....

Aug 6, 2010

Every women should....

my SIL gave this to me vial email..in my opinion...every single thing is true

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...

enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own, even if she never wants to or needs to...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

something perfect to wear if the employer, or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

a youth she's content to leave behind....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry..

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....

a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal, that will make her guests feel honored...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

a feeling of control over her destiny...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

how to fall in love without losing herself..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without ruining the friendship...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

when to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

that she can't change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

that her childhood may not have been perfect...but its over...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW..

whom she can trust, whom she can't, and why she shouldn't take it personally...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

where to go... be it to her best friend's kitchen table... or a charming inn in the woods... when her soul needs soothing...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

what she can and can't accomplish in a day... a month...and a year...

Aug 5, 2010

ada apa dengan itu macaroons???

macaroons yang comel shj :P

muka yang tak leh cover ketidakgumbiraan


raz yang lebih gemarkan chicken wings:P

According to Wikipedia....The word macaroon is applied to a variety of light, baked confections, described as either small cakes or meringue-like cookies depending on their consistency.

Kini di Malaysia macaroon menjadi kegilaan hampir semua orang..okey..ayat ni a bit exaggerating :P akibat kecomelan design dan warna -warna yg vibrant itu saya dan raz gi mencuba... mulanya hasanah patut ada bersama tapi tuntuan dan tugasan sebagai isteri dan anak yang solehah dia pulang ...

Anyways, Raz fetch me from home..mula tu balik uamh dulu nak check fridge banjir tak hasil tak der electric dalam tempoh lama dirumah..

Gi empire ...upon arrival tgk dah tinggal sikit jer macaroons tu... so raz bought about 10..

Headed to Madam Kwans for dinner.. sebelum order sampai we taste the ever so colourful macaroons....

mungkin muka tak gembira terlampau ketara di muka each other[raz and I]..terus cam...errr apa yang sedap sangat nie.. furthermore..everyone knows I am not a sweet tooth... I do eat cakes and so on tapi bukan lah ke tahap i cant live without it...

heheh.. walaupun i have nothing againts macaroon and people who love them ..sajer nak bgtau saya kurang gemar akannya...ni hint heheh..kalau saper nak bg sweet things macaroons are not an option for me :P

sekian terima kasih...

Aug 4, 2010

hAPPy Birthday Tengku Intan Baizura!






Happy Birthday SIL!!

wishing you the best in the upcoming years to come..


Happy Anniversary to You and Abang too...more adorable little ones in the upcoming years!heheh

xoxoAliaxoxo

Aug 2, 2010

starting august with a big heart :)

ok.. so i do this everytime saya terasa I need a perk to excites me so that I am more motivated....heheh..

kadang ada gak cita-cita hangat-hangat T*** ayam:P

cam aritu yang bersemangat waja nak kurus tu..ingat lagi tak??

hehehe...the reason i stopped susah payah is i realized that bila I berjaga-jaga and diet I gained more weight...bila cam biasa jer it goes down..pastu I realized that my body is indeed funny... i gained weight when i'm stressed and i loose weight when i'm happy.. some of my frens agak terbalik...

a.n.y.w.a.y.s,

misi bulan ini:

Better complexion by Raya!

my horrid experience started ever since April 2008!

prior to that i do get breakouts but it was just here and there.. Disebabkan my curiosity to try Dermalogica i signed up on a course that is worth like 1K plus..

reason: nakkan kulit yg lebih halus cam telur la kunun
status kulit ketika itu : clear with blackheads

after the second session i started breaking out, yang bernanah and all..the consultant bg reason sbb nak kene keluarkan yg bwh2 kulit..all the kotoron crap..after 3rd and 4th session makin teruk.. my skin started to turn dark... horrid giler.. my frens ramai yg tau...siap niesa suruh sue lagi...

after that sebab bengang i decided to stop the treatments..

when my parents came back from London the literally didnt recognize me at the airport..sedih betul..tambahan pula tengah final sem time tu..stress lg..so mmy teruk la my face..

silapnya i didnt go to the doctors...

i started using Clinique blemish set...
result: makin teruk and makin kering...

I remembered my pictures time farewell pre London mmg teruk giler muka..

sampai London i tried Proactive Skin Solutions

result: no changes..makin kering and further breakout!
since The weather there not helping.. orang kata duk tempat sejuk muka mesti oknya..mitos:P

the next products was Dr Murad...some may be familiar with these products
result: no changes...exam stress not helping

on the final day of my exams i went straight to Brentcross Shopping mall..masuk Bodyshop..the SA cam kesian agaknya tgk my face all swollen up and breakouts cam mushroom..dia bg i all the tea tree nya samples...

suprisingly..alhamdullillah it soothes down...

when i came back to Malaysia I continued...plus at that time i used Valencia's night cream...my face cleared up real good... time raya 2009 and time induction tu i just had like minor breakout...

after bout 6 months using Body Shop Products my faces started teruk balik...

tension punya pasal I started using Khiels pulak......
again..for the past several months still no clear skin..

So I was introduced Mary Kay's products by a friend..

Just recieved it today.. I am crossing my fingers as they say people with a even worse case than mine was happy with the products..they say i should wait for about 2 weeks to see the difference...

oh yaa.. I started drinking Innershine Prune drink as well..hope it will help..due to tonsil I am avoiding spicy and fried food..so that will be a bonus for me...

adakah misi ini akan berjaya???

sama-samalah berdoa for me yer...



ps: ini adalah entry berani mati sebab ckp pasal keburukan sendiri..erkkk